tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3129465223942754887.post4322909808392957347..comments2011-04-06T15:45:59.209-05:00Comments on Quantum John: Taking People For GrantedJohnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11369657896528823886noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3129465223942754887.post-59376367750885054802008-04-20T05:10:00.000-05:002008-04-20T05:10:00.000-05:00I don't think you can technically call your moment...I don't think you can technically call your moments of bliss "taking each other for granted". You said it yourself, when it comes down to it, you both show an equal amount of respect and dedication to each other and the relationship. Therefore, the moments in between are part of the whole and in no way reflect either of you taking each other for granted. My example of being taken for granted, from real recent experience, is when your best friend makes plans with you and constantly bails out because some other thing came up, or calling you an hour or two after the agreed time to see if the plans are still on, and not even mentioning his inconsideration. That's not even the part where I'm being for granted, because we all mess up once in a while, and perhaps some of us mess up a lot. The part where he takes me for granted is that the time in between, it is he that complains when I can't get to my cell phone when he calls, or when I turn down an invite from him because I've got other plans. I guess I just don't think taking someone for granted is as light a subject as you present it to be, but we all have a right to our opionion, right? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com